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The lonely old man felt lonely after she lost her daughter: she could only talk to the birds and miss her daughter, and the old man could only speak to the birds. Reporter blue shocks think early step daughter Wu grandmother can only say uncle Zhao to talk to the birds reporter blue shock Wang Li newspaper correspondent Wen Yihua who lives in Hangzhou city under the Horse Street community at the age of 61, how can not expect, during the Spring Festival, has always been the body can also he would leave home, always take care of the mother (paralyzed) and Mei (mental illness), go ahead. Sadly, he died at home for a few days before he was discovered. In the neighborhood, he was introverted and silent, but he was a brilliant teacher, screenwriter and writer. Every one of us has an old day! Data show that in Hangzhou, one out of every 5 people is older than 60 years old. How to let the elderly old age, a sense of how to better support families and special populations, attention and thinking need whole society more and more people. Over the past few days, the money reporter visited a number of communities, and social workers and volunteers together, came to the elderly, came to the difficult family and the special crowd…… These families, some of whom are dependent on the old couple, one of them seriously ill, some children died early or sick can not take care of themselves, and parents gradually unable to take care of the elderly. Their lives, a candle in the wind swaying erratic, we, how should they shelter? After caring for his wife for 14 years, she hasn’t slept through an interview: Aunt longevity, Zhang Shushu age: 70 years old, 74 years old, "old man, it doesn’t rain today. Let’s go out for a walk."." The 70 year old Shou Mei Feng pushed his husband out of the door. From 3 downstairs to 1 building, walked more than half an hour. 16 years ago, their son died because of an accident. Two years of stimulation of Zhang Zhixin’s high blood pressure caused a stroke, half of the body can not move. Every night, Zhang Zhixin night to ten, when he will wake up the body, and life, his clothes quickly get out of bed side over the urinal. 14 years of life, and couldn’t sleep for a whole night, tired out of a disease, diabetes, hypertension, heart beats calcification, then even kidney are out of the question. In the old two house, the most display is a box of medicine. Just a few days ago, Zhang Zhixin went to the toilet, because sitting for a long time, and this half of the paralysis, when up, leg a linen did not stand firm, and then fell to the ground. Life and the heart of a panic, even to the community emergency call button installed forgot, rushed downstairs to look for the people…… "They all depend on longevity aunt." A social worker to do not from the heart, may wish to consider the pension agency Gen Park community Secretary Chen Bin: we have a pair of two volunteers and two old people, from time to time they visited, and live in their upstairs Yang Huiqin, is an enthusiastic neighbor, a good will for the two old man left a. "There are 12 social workers in our community, together with 4 members of the neighborhood committee, and 16 people are responsible for 7000 of the more than 2 residents

独居老人丧女后倍感孤独:想起她只能对鸟儿说话 想女儿了,老人只能对着鸟儿说说话。记者 蓝震 摄   想起早走一步的女儿   吴奶奶只能对着鸟儿说说话   本报记者 蓝震 王丽 本报通讯员 温艺华   家住杭州下城区马市街社区61岁的赵大伯怎么也无法料到,春节期间,一向身体还可以的他,会撇下心心念念、一直照顾着的母亲(瘫痪)和阿妹(有精神疾患),先走一步。   令人唏嘘的是,他在家离世数日才被发现。而在邻里眼中一向内向、沉默的他,其实是才华横溢的教师、编剧和作家 。   我们每个人都有老去的一天!   数据显示,在杭州,每5个人中就有一位是超过60岁的老年人。   如何让老年人老有所依、老有所养,如何更好地扶持困难家庭和特殊人群,则需要全社会更多人的关注和思考。   连日来,钱报记者走访了多个社区,和社工与志愿者一起,来到老年人身边,来到困难家庭和特殊人群身边……   这些家庭,有的是相依为命的老夫妻俩其中一个生了重病,有的是子女早逝或患病不能自理,而父母渐老无力照顾。   他们的生活,如风中的残烛飘忽摇曳,我们,又该如何为他们遮风挡雨?   照顾中风老伴多年   14年来她没睡过一个整觉   采访对象:寿阿姨、张叔叔   年龄:70岁、74岁   “老头子,今天没下雨,我们出去走走。”70岁的寿美凤推着轮椅上的丈夫出了房门。从3楼下到1楼,走了半个多小时。   16年前,他们的儿子因为意外离开人世。没两年受了刺激的张志新高血压引发中风,半边身子动不了了。每天夜里,张志新要起夜十几次,只要他动一动身体, 寿美凤就会惊醒过来,披件衣服就赶紧下床把尿壶端过来。14年来,寿美凤没睡好一个整觉,病一个个累出来,糖尿病、心脏早搏钙化、高血压,后来连肾都出了 问题。在老两口的房子里,最多的摆设竟然是一盒盒药品。   就在前些天,张志新上厕所,因为坐得久了,加上本就半边瘫痪,起来的时候腿一麻没站稳,一下就倒在地上。寿美凤心里一慌,连社区给装的紧急呼叫按钮都忘了,就冲下楼去找人……   “他们这个家全靠寿阿姨撑着。”   社工一对多确实力不从心,不妨考虑机构养老   艮园社区书记陈滨:我们有两位志愿者与老两口结对,时不时会登门看望,而住在他们楼上的杨惠琴,更是热心邻居一个,有好吃的都会给两位老人留一份。“我们社区一共有社工12名,加上4名居委会成员,16个人要负责7000多位居民的日常管理和事务,担子不轻。”   寿美凤、张志新两位老人是社区重点关注的对象,社工会定期上门探访或者电话了解情况,还有热心的志愿者帮忙。可是即便这样,依然觉得心有余而力不足。比如老人每天晚上要起夜,这事儿志愿者根本插不上手。   “其实,机构养老,也许是帮助这些特殊老年群体的出路。”陈滨说,今年他们志愿者队伍打算做件事儿,把全杭州的养老机构都跑一遍,整理一份资料,推介给 有需要的老年人,如果他们需要,还可以陪着他们去实地看看,现在不少养老机构条件很不错,医养护一体,希望能帮助他们更好地接受机构养老的理念。   一想起早走一步的女儿   她只能对着鸟儿说说话   采访对象:吴奶奶   年龄:81岁   敲开定安路社区吴奶奶家的房门,她像个孩子一样,从屋里蹦了出来,一把握住上城区清波街道社工姚乐娴大姐的手,乐得合不拢嘴。姚大姐是老人的老朋友了,像女儿一样,经常过来找她谈心。   吴奶奶招呼我们进屋,房间不大,50平方米。来的时候,正好是饭点。老人的午餐是前一天的剩饭,烧成泡饭,就着酱萝卜。“一个人吃,简单点。”吴奶奶怕尴尬,赶紧把话题岔开了,“社区蛮关心我咧,隔三岔五都会有人过来跟我聊聊天,帮我买菜,还会送点东西过来。”   吴奶奶的丈夫走了10多年,最爱她的女儿也走了4年多了。   “女儿走了,家里更空荡了……”说着说着,老人眼角已含泪花。姚大姐赶紧开导起来,“不要担心,女儿在天上保佑你的,你身体好过得好,女儿才开心呢!”   吴奶奶身体还算可以,她最怕的是孤独,每次想女儿时,只能对着两只鸟说话——“买来四五年了,很通人性,每天心里有苦恼,我都会跟他们说说。”   “最担心生病,谁能叫得应呢?”老人的担心,其实社工姚大姐也考虑到了,“吴奶奶有高血压,要天天服药,我们也会经常上门,也跟周边的邻居打了招呼,有事没事去敲敲门。”   打个电话串串门,对他们是莫大的心理安慰   定安路社区社工姚大姐:3年前姚大姐退休,就加入到关爱老年人的计划中来。她的热心、乐观,感染了身边很多人。   “在我们街道辖区内,从经济条件上来说,特别困难的家庭很少,但他们往往精神上的需求很大。”因此,姚大姐每次来走访这些结对的老年人家中时,经常一待就是半天。   “我们发起了银龄互助,低龄老年人帮高龄老年人。”姚大姐说,他们把热心人都发动起来,这三年的社工经历让她体会到,打一个电话,串一次门,对孤单的老年人来说,都是莫大的心理安慰。   等我们上了80岁   年过半百的囡囡怎么办?   采访对象:朱阿姨   年龄:72岁   有这样一群父母,最迫切的愿望是自己活得比孩子长。家住清波街道的朱阿姨,就希望自己能一辈子照顾女儿。   “我和老伴都70多岁了,最放心不下的还是她。”朱阿姨的忧伤,也道出了所有残疾人家庭的心声。   女儿5岁那年确诊了大脑的问题。“当时只希望她可以自食其力。”但是,这个曾经最低要求也难以实现。   其实,朱阿姨做过三次大的手术,“2001年那次,我以为自己挺不过来了,含泪整理好了女儿的衣服,把女儿平时用的清洁用品再三交代给老伴……”好在这么多年来,朱阿姨很“争气”,屡屡闯过鬼门关。   但随着年龄的增大,照顾女儿也越来越力不从心了。这几天,46岁的女儿胆结石又犯了,看着女儿难受的样子,朱阿姨只能默默流泪。“医生建议开刀。但一想到要熬夜照顾女儿,我和老头子真吃不消啊!等再过几年,我们上了80岁,囡囡(指女儿)怎么办啊?”   “要是能有个志愿者来帮我们一把,在女儿住院的这段时间,帮我们一起照顾囡囡就好了。”   洗澡擦身洗头理发,努力提供居家照顾服务   清波街道社工小孔:对这些特殊的群体,许多街道也在做一些尝试。比如,清波街道正在培育和扶持“麦田圈”计划,专门关爱独生子女残疾家庭等。   目前,项目已经组成了家庭联络员队伍,每月与各自服务的家庭进行电话交流和走访看望。“先了解服务家庭的需求和困难,再主动为他们提供切实需要的照顾服务,比如洗澡、擦身、洗头、理发……”   对于那些不愿意或者没有能力去专门的养老服务机构的群体,“麦田圈”计划努力提供居家上门的照顾服务。对于类似朱阿姨家这样的特殊家庭,他们会多走动,一起帮他们克服困难。 责任编辑:张淳 SN182相关的主题文章: